Friday

[Minzell]

Lol....I would've beat him up 8)
LOL you still should .... damn asshole tried to talk me into going back with him yesterday.... idiot thinks I will take him back, "I still love you, and you won't even give me a 2nd chance *whimper whine*" LOL

[astinus]

Heh, so threatening to kill someone is just another way to show someone that you love them eh?

Glad you're out of that situation though, even if it was a rough road out. Damn clingy boyfriends.

:)

[Cycon]

LOL you still should .... damn asshole tried to talk me into going back with him yesterday.... idiot thinks I will take him back, "I still love you, and you won't even give me a 2nd chance *whimper whine*" LOL
Jeez-ass. That man has issues. I didn't wanna quote your other one because it was too long. For me...a person raises a gun at me...that is when i get crazy. In your situation as soon as that gun was lowered...BAM IN THE NUTS. Other than that...get a nice hunky bf for now and have him kick the shit out of your ex =P

[Minzell]

I figure I'm going to stay single for awhile..... then I can flirt in game and have any flings I want without getting someone all jealous.

As for the Ex- He is actually ordered no contact with me and I can have him arrested should he try to make contact with me. I'm too nice and didn't do it when he left the note for me in the mailbox asking if he could see me, thought I could make things a little easier between us if we had a "friendly" chat.... you know make it a less messy ending. Instead he would stop me from saying anything, interrupt me, and beg to get me back.... never doing that again. Didn't think it would make it all worse.... he tried real hard to make me feel guilty for what he did. So yeah no way going near him...ever again.

[Cycon]

Atleast you got it all striaghtened out.

[megalomaniac]

nice - and Hyakku: STOP IT :D

[Sirun]

like violence during sex only Who doesn't.

[Ellie]

I'm too nice and didn't do it when he left the note for me in the mailbox asking if he could see me, thought I could make things a little easier between us if we had a "friendly" chat.... you know make it a less messy ending.

Oh uhuh.. fuck the bullshit! He went after you, he flipped his damned lid, he was physically, emotionally, and verbally abusive to you, he destroyed your property and made you and your child feel unsafe in your own home. The bitch is LUCKY you didn't flip out right on back.

Let it be messy - the fucker deserves to be all discombobulated over it. Let HIM sourt out exactly what the hell happened to him in that situation. Exactly when he took his little Dr. Jeck Mr. Hyde potion, and just how far he might have taken things. It quite a mental slap to see alll of that comming from YOU - that total and complete loss of self control is a shock.

Let HIM sort out his OWN shit and find a way to fix it, work on it, or explain it away. You don't owe him jack shit, and let is be messy. Sometimes messy is a very good thing! It modivates people.

Statistics Anyone?

each year, an estimated 3.3 million children are exposed to violence by family members against their mothers or female caretakers.
American Psychl. Ass'n, Violence and the Family: Report of the American Psychological Association Presidential Task Force on Violence and the Family (1996), p. 11.

fathers who batter mothers are 2 times more likely to seek sole physical custody of their children than are non-violent fathers.
American Psychl. Ass'n, Violence and the Family: Report of the American Psychological Association Presidential Task Force on Violence and the Family (1996), p. 40.

60% of women in one study reported acts of abuse after the entry of a protection order, and 30% reported acts of severe violence.
Buzawa & Buzawa ed., Do Arrests and Restraining Orders Work? p. 223 (1996).

60% of those obtaining protection orders in one study reported violations within one year. The risk of homicide is higher in the first two months after separation.
Buzawa & Buzawa ed., Do Arrests and Restraining Orders Work? p. 240 (1996).

Domestic Violence is the Leading Cause of Injury to Women Between the Ages of 15 and 44 in the United States - More Than Car Accidents, Muggings, and Rapes Combined


Wow! Girl... let is stay messy. YOU don't need the closure, you got your closure with your Protection Order. Let is stay that way.

*hug*

[Minzell]

Oh uhuh.. fuck the bullshit! He went after you, he flipped his damned lid, he was physically, emotionally, and verbally abusive to you, he destroyed your property and made you and your child feel unsafe in your own home. The bitch is LUCKY you didn't flip out right on back.

Wow! Girl... let is stay messy. YOU don't need the closure, you got your closure with your Protection Order. Let is stay that way.

*hug*
Thanks for the support..... I've never had a relationship that was this crappy in the end.... it did make me feel as though I was doing somethng wrong, you know?

Shit even my son's dead beat dad is still a friend even if he never pays child support. Money doesn't matter anyway, he stays out of my raising of my son that is what matters to me.

I didn't get a DVRO... he got a condition on his Probation to not contact me for the next year, and I thought he would obey it. Now I know he will.... because I want to go my own way.... I won't give him anyway to contact me without going through my sister, he won't get my new address or phone# when I finally get an apartment.

[Medicalelf]

yah you will feel that you did something wrong, coz he makes you feel that way giving you the guilt that's it's your fault too. That's the routine of a sick bastards. And no matter what he say or do don't ever go back to him, coz maybe next time you might not get out of it alive. ><


Thanks for the support..... I've never had a relationship that was this crappy in the end.... it did make me feel as though I was doing somethng wrong, you know?

Shit even my son's dead beat dad is still a friend even if he never pays child support. Money doesn't matter anyway, he stays out of my raising of my son that is what matters to me.

I didn't get a DVRO... he got a condition on his Probation to not contact me for the next year, and I thought he would obey it. Now I know he will.... because I want to go my own way.... I won't give him anyway to contact me without going through my sister, he won't get my new address or phone# when I finally get an apartment.